Separation from Rafael van der Vaart: Sabia Boulahrouz ‘tasteless … – STERN

It could be the script of a Rosamunde Pilcher filming: separation in the New Year’s Eve, the Last at his side is the best friend of his estranged wife, a possible reconciliation, after the divorce, new luck, a miscarriage and now the dramatic separation. When Rafael van der Vaart nothing seems to go without much drama. This applies as well as his private life for his club AC. Mainly because of its women. Sylvie van der Vaart and Sabia Boulahrouz

In an interview with the magazine “OK” Boulahrouz what has already been rumored for weeks in tabloids confirmed. Van der Vaart and they split up. “The relationship with Raf’s over,” said the 37-year-old. You and the Dutch international, who joined in July from HSV to Betis Sevilla and it moved to Spain, while they remained in Hamburg had that discussion last week on the phone. There was a separation, though they both still loved. . “You can still love so much, sometimes the outer circumstances are not beneficial,” said Boulahrouz

In order to describe their feelings, falls at the beginning of the interview, a phrase that makes itself heard: “I may actually explain to anyone how I feel at the moment. But if I had to take it but in words that could describe it best with the sense of someone who has been raped and was then left to die on a deserted path, “says Bouhlarouz dramatic and rich image. Uff!

Certainly, the ex-wife of Khalid Boulahrouz is in no easy situation. Shortly after becoming aware of their relationship with van der Vaart, she was showered with hostility. You have her best friend Sylvie Meis stretched out the man, it was said in some tabloids. You had only to van der Vaart money was to be read there. In addition apparently came accusations from the family of soccer players, she was responsible for his poor athletic performance. 2013 lost their child from her and van der Vaart in the fifth month of pregnancy. And now the painful separation, even though she is pregnant again straight.

But a comparison with a rape is inappropriate and distasteful. Equate his pain of separation with a physical violence mocks the victims of any rape. White woman Boulahrouz what it says there? At the dramatic description of her feelings come Selbtsmordgedanken. “I have often thought in the last few months, when I sat in the car: If I did not take the curve now, but just keep driving straight on, then maybe it’s all over and then I do not feel pain anymore,” she says in an interview.

It is her wish that she finally finds what she is looking for: “I want to live and try to be happy,” she says. Finally, there is in every Rosamunde Pilcher film a happy ending.